Hiya Gang!
My fathers funeral was today. It was a beautiful ceremony, attending by a large group of family and friends. Getting outside of our "little world", it amazed me at all the services how many people my father had touched over the years.
My father was never a model railroader in the normal definition. However every fall he would start going to my Grandfathers house to help him set up a traditional train garden, with Lionel trains and all the trappings. After I came along, at the age of 4, he started setting up one in our house, but with that newfangled HO scale. I still have that set of trains, and occasionally still run them. As I grew into a teenager, he started buying Mantua steam kits, which he and I built over the course of a few weeks. These were not without a hitch though. Good grades brought kits, completed chores were traded for 1 hour sessions working on the kits each week. And yes, I still have those engines too.
When I was in Scouts, I remember him helping me complete my Railroading merit badge. Even though it meant rushing home from work one night to get me to the merit badge councellor's house on time.
Over the years, after my children were born, Dad didn't help with the trains themselves, but building benchwork, or helping out with wiring issues was always something which I could depend on him for help. Carpentry and phone repair were his vocations, so both came in handy when working on the layout. Leading up to and after my divorce, Dad seemed to gain a real appreciation for my chosen hobby. He would not only watch me run them back and forth across what modules I had in the basement, but would regale me with stories of the B&O in West Baltimore in his younger days. True, It wasn't really his cup of tea, but because it was mine, he had no qualms about sharing it and helping me with it. It was just the kind of support that Dad gave to any of his children, whenever they asked.
In closing, Janice and I would like to thank each and every one of you for the kinds words, the sympathy cards, emails, and those who attended the viewings. You truly made a rough time in our lives a little easier to bear.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!