Nicki is finally able to walk without a walker, but still cannot drive until the surgeon gives her the ok. I had to take her in to get an implant post screwed into her jaw yesterday. That poor girl isn't getting any breaks.
I have 100% empathy & sympathy to anyone that has to act to as a caregiver, be it for a spouse or family member. Over the last 6 weeks I have really found out how much she does around the house. Doing my duties and her duties as well as taking her to all the Dr visits & PT is exhausting, but I just power through it.
Then there is my 93yo mom.....I received a text yesterday from ADT that there is an alarm event at her house. I know it's one of three things....a break-in, an exterior door that wasn't fully closed and blew open, or she didn't enter the correct code when she got home. I call her....no answer. I text her....no response. Now my BP is busting sky high. I finally get a call from her and I ask is everything ok? Of course everything is ok. She went to lunch with her friends, spoke with my brother (his b'day was 10/6), etc. I finally stopped her and said I had a text from ADT about an alarm event. She tells me it was nothing. She put the wrong code in and it took a minute or two to remember it.
As soon as Nicki is cleared we're running away to the coast for a few days.
With all that's been going on I decided to distract myself. I had a boxcar that wasn't in the era I model, so I decided to try weathering with nothing, but oils. It came out pretty good. Not TomO pretty good, but for my first full oil job I'm happy.
I have 100% empathy & sympathy to anyone that has to act to as a caregiver, be it for a spouse or family member. Over the last 6 weeks I have really found out how much she does around the house. Doing my duties and her duties as well as taking her to all the Dr visits & PT is exhausting, but I just power through it.
Then there is my 93yo mom.....I received a text yesterday from ADT that there is an alarm event at her house. I know it's one of three things....a break-in, an exterior door that wasn't fully closed and blew open, or she didn't enter the correct code when she got home. I call her....no answer. I text her....no response. Now my BP is busting sky high. I finally get a call from her and I ask is everything ok? Of course everything is ok. She went to lunch with her friends, spoke with my brother (his b'day was 10/6), etc. I finally stopped her and said I had a text from ADT about an alarm event. She tells me it was nothing. She put the wrong code in and it took a minute or two to remember it.
As soon as Nicki is cleared we're running away to the coast for a few days.
With all that's been going on I decided to distract myself. I had a boxcar that wasn't in the era I model, so I decided to try weathering with nothing, but oils. It came out pretty good. Not TomO pretty good, but for my first full oil job I'm happy.
