I actually feel for you Chip. Years ago I was fortunate that thru my daughters teenage years, she lived, slept, and ate anything having to do with fast pitch softball and not having much to do with "romance and other stuff". She had even got to the point of intimidating the high school baseball players, by getting in the fast pitch baseball batting cages and hitting successfully 99% of the balls the machine would throw at her at 75-85 mph. The boys didn't like that, as they couldn't do that well. My wife and I were very fortunate that her drive to become a better player didn't ease until she was in college playing there. It was there she "rediscovered" boys. Been 4 years since college, she ain't let one catch her yet! Although there is one she says that's pretty close!