The goodie on top is a big freakin 'rock....bout 6-8 feet across per my eyeball. There were/are more of em.....bout 10, I understand.
My sister & I have put my mom in a nursing home in Sequim ( where my sister lives). Mom got to the point where she could not (or would not) get out of bed. She was living alone at nearly 94 yrs old and 70lbs.......not feeding herself hardly to boot. The home has a rehab program and mom is doing pretty well considering.
MAYBE we can get her back on her feet and back home (in Kingston, WA).....but that is just one option. Some one has to take care of her place (10 acres) at least a few days a week. There is a huge amount of work to be done after the place was let go for several years....good rehab for me to boot.
Her vital signs are good but I fear she is loosing the will to live. For me, it's all about payback.