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Snarky Old Fart (in training)
May I suggest:My first thought was to cut back. The heat in July will still be a problem for me. I also worry that people will show up regardless of what I do.
I've always hoped the young ones would step up. They enjoy being guests too much.
They do all the decorations.
The real problem is me. They have tried to help, I think to myself, "get out of the way, I'll do it". They don't have the experience. My wife has often asked me "how are they going to get any experience".
I need to step away and let them take over completly.
That is what I am hoping will happen. I've been hinting at it for years. The time has come to ask flat out.
I don't even have much of an appetite anymore. Two hotdogs, one beer, and salad and I am done for the day.
That is exactly right Curt.
Dear Fam:
I'm here to eat. (assuming the party is at your place). If you want the party on the 4th - it's up to you. I'm not doing it again. It's just too much.
That means, I don't want to hear about problems on the day of. It's your party now. Call me when food is ready.
I'll be in the train room running trains with the grandkids until you tell me it's time to eat. If you can't do the crabs correctly, get them catered. I'm here to eat, and to run trains.
Love Dad!
PS: don't burn holes in my crab pot. Ever!
