I acquired my hearing loss on active duty in the Corps over a 23 year period. Duties with an artillery battery, mortar operator, small arms fire and all sorts of radio comm. I.E. voice, Morse Code, teletype took its toll.
Significant loss of hearing in the higher ranges where most of women's voices are compiled. Lower frequencies of men's voices clip parts of words making some conversations difficult.
The VA provided me with Phonak hearing aids. I don't wear them around the house because there's nobody else here. I don't wear them on the motorcycle because the noise may damage them. I'll forget to plug em in a lot of times when going to church or other meetings. Don't think of it till I see a woman moving her mouth but I don't hear her. I just smile, nod and shake her hand as though I heard her.
When my daughter stops by on occasion, she turns the radio down and rolls her eyes. Oh, sorry, didn't hear ya come in. The grand kids have already flooded by me which I don't notice. Was out at the church loading logs into my truck to haul to the land fill. Church custodian snuck up on me in his service cart, smirking. No hearing aids today, huh?
Sometimes the silence is welcome. Other times I have trouble making out what women are sayin on TV despite volume being close to 100.
Tinnitus is so loud at times, I'm surprised that others near me can't hear it.