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I do know of a train show coming up this April in St. Cloud. It's called the "Granite City Train Show & Sale" heres a link to the web-site www.granitecitytrainshow.com
As for clubs in the area, it's been my experience that local hobby shops are where one can readily get that info. I do know of one at the University of Minnesota.