Hi gang, I've refrained from sharing this news of an ongoing family crisis because I didn't want to turn this into a soap opera. Its been a flippin' roller coaster of good news, bad news, good news, bad news...
In mid-December, my sister Kris (age 56) suffered a rupture of her lower intestine. Since she and her husband Don lived so far from any major metropolitan area, the local hospital near Mercersburg (PA) didn't think they could deal with it, so another 7 hours passed before they got her to Harrisburg Hospital for the emergency surgery. Obviously that was more than enough time for the poison to circulate throughout her entire bloodstream. They put her on all kinds of antibiotics, sedatives and pain killers, and has been on a ventilator for the past 2 months.
The ICU doctor told Don that he'd notify him as soon as he thought the treatment was doing her more harm than good. He called with that assessment on Sunday.
Kris had prepared a living will instructing her next-of-kin NOT to leave her hooked up to artificial life support in a vegetative state. We honored her wishes; the hospital withdrew everything except the morphine and sedatives. She passed peacefully 2 hours later.
Rest in Peace, Little Sister!