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"I also don't return to the auction. I find out whether I've won or lost by the e-mail I get from E-bay."
Carey, it looks like you are a gambler or that you not really interested in items you bidding on (which is fine too i guess). your approach however does not guarantee you get the item, and when you do get it, you pay measurably more than you could have (just look at all random people raising you to determine how much you overpaid). of course that might not be of concern to you and you could spend more but then why do i always hear "ohhh! prices on ebay got crazy!" . well, because somebody is raising the plank, why else?
Anton,
You can say all you want about this but the way I bid on the bay works for me and always has. I bid my max price and that's it. You say that I will always get outbid or pay too much. You are also assuming that I'm bidding on the same stuff you are. I am neither a gambler nor do I don't care about what I do bid on.
#1. You don't know what I'm bidding on, as does no one else. Most things I get and win, generally only has a total of 5-6 bids, at the most.
#2. You're also assuming that I'm placing max bids in the neighborhood of $1000 or more, since that's the number that everyone is batting around. Wrong, I don't often go above $30. It has to be something I
really want to go above $50.
#3. You're also thinking that I'm also trying to bid on some of the "latest and greatest", that everyone else is bidding on. I don't. Let's just say I don't bid on any modern models of locos and cars. I also don't bid on
anything RTR, except brass and I haven't bid on any of that for years. I will not bid on a structure that my LHS has in stock.
#4. You're trying to get my wants and needs for MY hobby to fit what YOU bid on, and they just don't fit.
#5. You're also assuming that I spend
alot of time on the bay. Again I don't. I have specific searches set up in My E-bay that I use, and I use those to find what I want. I may spend 4-5 hours a month on the bay.
You can quote all the articles, books, and internet writings on auction bidding and how to win and such you want, but I'm not going to change my habits.

I've used my method from the early days of E-bay, a long time before all those auction experts wrote their stuff, and it works for me.